Those of you who know me well, know that everything has a reason, connection or purpose in my life - however tenuous, random or illogical!
So when I came outside yesterday to find Fergus in this position....
hot, bothered, lethargic and oddly reluctant to take a walk my synapses began to make allsorts of bizarre connections; he's depressed, he's bored, etc etc.
Consequently, I made a mental note to myself that if the weather today was more amenable, we would head out for a 'real' walk, and somewhere different.
Even though it was still very humid this morning, I kept my promise and Ferg and I headed out for a walk around Greenlake.
Walking is a little challenging for me at the moment because just in the last week someone who shall remain nameless but is about the size of an aubergine right now, has decided to stage a sit-in on my sciatic nerve. Thankfully Sir Fergus is a sniffing/peeing machine so his frequent stops give me time to stretch!
I always feel a sense of familiarity when I walk Greenlake. It was my second home a few years back and for a year I pretty much walked, ran or biked it every day. Today I got to thinking about that, the first time I walked the Lake and how much my life has changed since then.
It was August 9th, 2004 - the day I arrived in Seattle to start my Fulbright Exchange. I had been dropped off at Heidi's apartment (now mine for the year) by a colleague from school, and after unpacking my suitcase, needed some fresh air. I wandered down the hill, through the bunny field and honestly thought I had hit the jackpot. I'm not really sure what I expected of Seattle - but probably had a vision in my mind of the typical American urban landscape, with blocks and malls and drive-thrus - so was absolutely floored when I came across a watery oasis right on my doorstep. I remember I didn't make it all the way round on that first day - I wasn't quite sure how far it was and was worried I wouldn't be able to find my way back to the apartment!
As fate would have it - it's probably fortunate that I didn't spend any longer there as I meant I was able to navigate successfully back home with enough time to fire up my computer and attempt to connect to the Internet. Yet again - fate was in the hands of my less than prolific IT skills and I was forced to call upon the services of the local tech-whizz.
I have to point out that, contrary to popular belief - I did not cross the pond in search of a mate. Far from it. In fact if anyone has seen the movie The Holiday - let's just say I share more than just a name with Kate Winslet and her character. No, I applied to Fulbright because I was getting a little restless in my job - although I loved it and didn't want to leave permanently, I was getting a little too complacent in my comfortable single life in Warwick and felt the need to challenge myself and step out of my comfort zone for a short period. Admittedly - Fulbright made it pretty easy - by brokering a 'life swap' for a give period of time - but I think fate had yet another hand in my particular situation as it matched me up with probably the perfect partner in Heidi. And of course with Heidi, came her wonderful family, extended family and friends.
So back to August 9th, 2004. I had unpacked, walked part of the Lake, called IT 911 - someone called Mike Hoyt - and poured myself a Bud Light (yes but that's another story).
When I opened the door around 30 minutes later - all I really remember was the smile. Of course, he fixed my Internet connection too and politely drank a Bud Light (in hindsight I was lucky he didn't make for the hills right there and then - given my apparent bad taste in beer).
Never in a million years did I think that almost exactly 7 years later, I would be walking round the Lake again, this time with a four-legged friend, and now married to the techno-whizz, and expecting his baby in a few short months!
I wonder what the next 7 years will bring?!
Monday, June 27, 2011
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Baby Brain.....
Your Honour, I present for your consideration, the following 2 pieces of evidence....
June 22nd, 4 pm
Mike "Hey Kate, I have a question for you...since when did the postman start leaving the post on the compost bin?"
(In my defence - it was a hot day and the strawberries were looking pathetic so I had to water them before I forgot)
June 22nd, 8pm
(On returning from a late trip to the shops, with a VERY hungry husband - one of 2 states it's best to avoid allowing him to reach....the other one is tired in case you were interested)
Kate "Fire up the BBQ I'll get the chops out of the fridge"
Kate goes to fridge and finds no chops - only spare ribs which need to be boiled for 40 mins before even looking at a BBQ
(Again - in my defence - they LOOKED like chops when I got them out of the freezer that morning)
Only another 89ish days to go.......
June 22nd, 4 pm
Mike "Hey Kate, I have a question for you...since when did the postman start leaving the post on the compost bin?"
(In my defence - it was a hot day and the strawberries were looking pathetic so I had to water them before I forgot)
June 22nd, 8pm
(On returning from a late trip to the shops, with a VERY hungry husband - one of 2 states it's best to avoid allowing him to reach....the other one is tired in case you were interested)
Kate "Fire up the BBQ I'll get the chops out of the fridge"
Kate goes to fridge and finds no chops - only spare ribs which need to be boiled for 40 mins before even looking at a BBQ
(Again - in my defence - they LOOKED like chops when I got them out of the freezer that morning)
Only another 89ish days to go.......
Places and Spaces....
Those of you who know our house here, know it is not exactly huge. What we lack in living space though, we make up for in shovels in the garden. I swear our garden is about three times the size of the house - well that's how big is feels when it comes to weeding anyway.
Having a big garden does not help us in the slightest when it came to thinking about finding a space to plant our wee sprout (although.......wait a minute......sprouts....garden...hmmmmm)
With the house's funky floor-plan, we have a spare bedroom on the main floor and two in the basement. Mike and I have become underground dwellers - reluctantly at first, but now very willingly, given our ever unpredictable climate.
The bedroom we do not sleep in is Mike's man cave. He works from home but I hesitate to call it an office as it is SO much more than that. It really is like the Tardis in many ways; open the door and you enter a world within worlds. It's not a big room by any means but he manages to find room for an office, a gym (complete with full size static bike), a storage room (golf clubs, fishing rods, camping gear etc) AND a desk where he can do whatever he does with his arsenal of boys' toys (those of you who know him will know what I mean - those of you who don't - don't worry it's nothing illegal or smutty)
So, having decided that the Tardis would not be an appropriate place for a small person (not for a few years anyway) we were left with the hallway/corridor between it, our bedroom and the laundry room. Although I wouldn't say we are super fussy, I did actually want the 'space' to end up looking more like a room than just a 'space,' and given the fact my spatial awareness leave much to be desired, planning it out was a challenge to say the least. Needless to say, it is a work in progress and I thought it would be fun to post some pictures along the way so you can see how it develops! It's already in its third incarnation: in its first, the corridor had dark burgundy walls which, however you look at it do not create the illusion of space. In its second, the wonderful crib, given to us by some dear friends, was positioned outside our bedroom door, in the perfect position for me to hit square on every night whilst sleepwalking to the loo a million times (nope - not bitter at all). Hence the third and at this stage (but who knows) final incarnation.
Like I said - still a work in progress but this is how it looks so far........
Having a big garden does not help us in the slightest when it came to thinking about finding a space to plant our wee sprout (although.......wait a minute......sprouts....garden...hmmmmm)
With the house's funky floor-plan, we have a spare bedroom on the main floor and two in the basement. Mike and I have become underground dwellers - reluctantly at first, but now very willingly, given our ever unpredictable climate.
The bedroom we do not sleep in is Mike's man cave. He works from home but I hesitate to call it an office as it is SO much more than that. It really is like the Tardis in many ways; open the door and you enter a world within worlds. It's not a big room by any means but he manages to find room for an office, a gym (complete with full size static bike), a storage room (golf clubs, fishing rods, camping gear etc) AND a desk where he can do whatever he does with his arsenal of boys' toys (those of you who know him will know what I mean - those of you who don't - don't worry it's nothing illegal or smutty)
So, having decided that the Tardis would not be an appropriate place for a small person (not for a few years anyway) we were left with the hallway/corridor between it, our bedroom and the laundry room. Although I wouldn't say we are super fussy, I did actually want the 'space' to end up looking more like a room than just a 'space,' and given the fact my spatial awareness leave much to be desired, planning it out was a challenge to say the least. Needless to say, it is a work in progress and I thought it would be fun to post some pictures along the way so you can see how it develops! It's already in its third incarnation: in its first, the corridor had dark burgundy walls which, however you look at it do not create the illusion of space. In its second, the wonderful crib, given to us by some dear friends, was positioned outside our bedroom door, in the perfect position for me to hit square on every night whilst sleepwalking to the loo a million times (nope - not bitter at all). Hence the third and at this stage (but who knows) final incarnation.
Like I said - still a work in progress but this is how it looks so far........
Friday, June 10, 2011
What's in a name..?
Quite a bit apparently!
How any child gets named is beyond me. Mikey and I have been discussing this issue for at least 3 months now and are still no further forward.
Granted we aren't exactly making things easy for ourselves (and maybe over-thinking it a tad!) but it is seriously no mean task.
Firstly we have to work doubly hard as we are not finding out the sex - that's at least 2 options for boy and girl -plus middle names
Then we have to find something which sounds the same when pronounced with either an English or American accent (harder than you think)
I have a thing about funky spelling so it has to have only one possible spelling option
Of course, it has to be a name which doesnt conjure up some memory of an awful teaching experience (that also narrows the field quite significantly!)
Finally - we have to agree - oh my!.
So having perused websites, baby name books, dictionaries, gardening catalogues and pregnancy books I turned in desperation to the one place I knew would be able to help - the Baby Name Genie (cue magical ta da type music)
For the uninitiated, the BNG is a lovely chap who grants you three wishes - that is to say - he provides you with 3 perfect name options for your baby - and all you have to do is tell him which sex and your surname. Piece of cake!
Here are the names he granted me in wishes today. Now I have high hopes for our child of course - so I have added some potential career choices we shall offer him/her should we decide to take the Genie's advice:
Ivan Anthony Hoyt - Gladiator
Jason Axel Hoyt - Heavy Metal Guitarist
Bo Hunter Hoyt - I think this one speaks for itself - kind of limits his weapon choice
Tess Celeste Hoyt - Porn Star
Daphne Shelby Hoyt - Daytime Soap Actress
Jessica Cindy Hoyt - Pageant Queen
Back to the drawing board I guess. Feel free to make any suggestions in the comments box!
How any child gets named is beyond me. Mikey and I have been discussing this issue for at least 3 months now and are still no further forward.
Granted we aren't exactly making things easy for ourselves (and maybe over-thinking it a tad!) but it is seriously no mean task.
Firstly we have to work doubly hard as we are not finding out the sex - that's at least 2 options for boy and girl -plus middle names
Then we have to find something which sounds the same when pronounced with either an English or American accent (harder than you think)
I have a thing about funky spelling so it has to have only one possible spelling option
Of course, it has to be a name which doesnt conjure up some memory of an awful teaching experience (that also narrows the field quite significantly!)
Finally - we have to agree - oh my!.
So having perused websites, baby name books, dictionaries, gardening catalogues and pregnancy books I turned in desperation to the one place I knew would be able to help - the Baby Name Genie (cue magical ta da type music)
For the uninitiated, the BNG is a lovely chap who grants you three wishes - that is to say - he provides you with 3 perfect name options for your baby - and all you have to do is tell him which sex and your surname. Piece of cake!Here are the names he granted me in wishes today. Now I have high hopes for our child of course - so I have added some potential career choices we shall offer him/her should we decide to take the Genie's advice:
Ivan Anthony Hoyt - Gladiator
Jason Axel Hoyt - Heavy Metal Guitarist
Bo Hunter Hoyt - I think this one speaks for itself - kind of limits his weapon choice
Tess Celeste Hoyt - Porn Star
Daphne Shelby Hoyt - Daytime Soap Actress
Jessica Cindy Hoyt - Pageant Queen
Back to the drawing board I guess. Feel free to make any suggestions in the comments box!
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Whatever next.....?!
It occurred to me that although Mike and I have shared our good news with many of you - it may have come as a shock to some!
It's been a long road for sure - and we needed some help - but to abbreviate the story somewhat - all the stars
seem to have aligned for us and in late January we found out that we are expecting in September - 20th as far as we know - not that the date really means anything from what I've been told!!
We really haven't allowed ourselves to get excited up until now- but as time goes on - we are slowly daring to think this might actually happen! I think the size of my belly might be helping that process - that and the persistent kicks coming from inside it!
Here's pictorial proof of the ever-increasing belly!
It's been a long road for sure - and we needed some help - but to abbreviate the story somewhat - all the stars
seem to have aligned for us and in late January we found out that we are expecting in September - 20th as far as we know - not that the date really means anything from what I've been told!!
We really haven't allowed ourselves to get excited up until now- but as time goes on - we are slowly daring to think this might actually happen! I think the size of my belly might be helping that process - that and the persistent kicks coming from inside it!
Here's pictorial proof of the ever-increasing belly!
Friday, June 3, 2011
A fresh start....
New leaf, new Blog. Nothing like a baby on the way to chivvy one into action.
I am hoping that this will enable me to keep everyone I don't see often enough updated with the progress of my growing belly (and other parts) and give you a taste of our life here to boot.
I'm going to kick this first post off with the latest photo of our wee sprout.
Thank you for reading!
I am hoping that this will enable me to keep everyone I don't see often enough updated with the progress of my growing belly (and other parts) and give you a taste of our life here to boot.
I'm going to kick this first post off with the latest photo of our wee sprout.
Thank you for reading!
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